I really do want to love Love Lane Kitchen. Seriously. It’s a bustling little cafe on a great little street (Love Lane) in Mattituck. The menu balances local standards (lobster rolls) with things that are a bit of a surprise (pad thai and Cuban sandwiches). And, given the dire need for lunch options in wine country, I really really want to love the place. But after our second visit, I can’t say that I do yet. After a quiet 4th of July at the house, we decided to make the short drive out to the North Fork. We picked up…