By Evan Dawson, Finger Lakes Editor Chris Stamp wants to show me something, but he wants to keep it a secret, and he knows I'm a writer. I'm here to chat, to taste his 2010 wines, to understand how a guy like him can carry so much energy, all the time. But he wants to show Evan Dawson, private citizen, not Evan Dawson, writer. I am not conditioned to go off the record easily. I favor transparency and openness and sunlight. But Stamp won't budge — not yet, anyway, as he explains it. So I relent. "Okay, we're off the…