As someone who lives just west of the North Fork, I’ve explored the North Fork dining scene much more than I have the Hampton’s scene. I’m also much more interested in the food, wine and service than I am any sort of Hamptons people-watching or soulless scenes. On a recent visit to 1770 House in East Hampton, however I was given everything that I wanted and nothing I didn’t. Joined by my good friend M, we arrived a few moments ahead of schedule and were greeted by a friendly, but not fawning, host and escorted through a warmly decorated lounge…