By Evan Dawson, Finger Lakes Editor Photos courtesy Heron Hill Winery Don't blame the growers. Yes, they are like the real-life manifestation of Goldilocks, complaining when things are a little too cold or a little too hot. Yes, they are like your annoying friend who is never satisfied with a date, or a menu or a movie. But they are only taking up for their vines, and in New York state, vines are easily dissatisfied. And so it is with consternation that growers look to the upcoming forecast. Kids will be playing, golf balls flying, grills firing, but growers will…